Utility of Grief !

Grief is the gift of God. It is not a bad thing. It is gift from Divinity. The restlessness, anxiety and disengagement are from your lord. He has tamed your ego in certain way. Grief is not product of consequences, it is intrinsic. some people are soft, polite and introvert, they cry easily. They have overwhelming grief of the world they carry in their chests. Worry is bad, grief is good. it will open your ways to tranquility and peace. It is intrinsic part to achieve self-actualization, various artists use it as fuel to bring spark in their creative expression. It is the ultimate reality of the world; human beings are filled with grief of departing their God, and the distance is very much real, you cannot see Him, you cannot Hear Him and you cannot touch Him...the urge to see Him is very much there, to be part of the profound experience...of the transcendence, of ecstasy. Of whole...of one! 

Then Allah teaches us patience, to hold our urges, to hold our horses, to bear our impulses, and to suffer without Him...heart that beats with the name of lord will always keep booming - with hope, with impatience, with urge and with desire to seek Him. That is the real grief of life till death, and that is why people like us are obsessed with the idea of dying so that these curtain fall...so that this theatre must end, and so that ultimate truth, the only truth is exposed to before eyes, and we see it completely with our senses.