Why people close doors?

Close doors and close hearts scare me alot. Reserved people make me uncomfortable. Silent ones frighten me. If you're not willing to speak your heart and mind with me then you're not a useful person to me. I build meaningful connections on the basis of authenticity and vulnerability. You're completely stranger to me. I know your name. I know what you do. How you look like?... But I still can't place you who really are you if you decide to stay discreet.

People close doors for various reasons. For maintaining boundaries and privacy. For concealing themselves. For hiding parts of them who they can't expose. What parts of you are private? - I'm not a vulgar person but if your sheer honest about yourself, you start seeing yourself completely holistically. You also start seeing others completely and holistically.

You understand the games people play. Who are triggered by trauma. Who are provoked by insensitivity and who are completely shameless without hesitation. Someone told me you need to show some hesitation and reluctantance. You cannot be crude and blunt to people like that. It's not an socially acceptable thing to me at this age. Treat people with respect and respect means respecting the view they that they hold about themselves, respect means keeping that view without violating their image and sanctity.

Once you see how people want to be treated. Treat them like that. Don't peep in into that face which is beyond mask. It's such a childish thing to do. You're provoking people to commit assault. Don't paint people with other faces than the face they already carry. They will hate you for this. Respect the closed doors and understand that only lucky ones get special entry and you're not that lucky person. Look at other doors, who might open up when you knock. Banging the same door for years is such a childish and insane thing to do. 

It might amuse you for a while but there's nothing special beyond these doors. People are mediocre, average and disappointing mostly. You have just wasted your precious time dedicating to a delusion, a fantasy of what hold beyond those close doors but the residents of the house have already made a decision that these doors will never be open again ever for anyone.

On deeper introspection, you'd come to know that the residents of closed doors have also waited for years for some other doors to open but on a rejection, they decided to close their doors too. 

We are shying away from expressing truth. Stating obvious. This hesitation, this reluctance and this mistrust is based on insecurity and insecure people will never open up their doors for you.